Clear Vision notes that: In life there are ‘scales of balance’.
When these scales are unbalanced so too are our life’s vibrations unbalanced. One being out of kilter tips the scales of the other. Lives get busy, career paths change course, family life interrupts or we just become too, tired, too ill or to ‘zombielike’ to stand up the winds of change created by the dynamics of life not standing complacently still. Now the effects of these continual balancing acts are viewed as ‘normal’. Accepted. We do not recognise the unbalancing. The easiest method of dealing with the effects is to ignore it. Put what was into the too hard basket.
Being human we attempt to ignore pain. Grief is pain. Time now has taught us coping methods. Such as isolation and removing ourselves from what we see as the cause/s. In effect living an isolated, anti-society life. When others are going down the path we have been down, or are traveling through, we avoid them. That way recognising our past pain, the implications of, the changes made to accommodate our unbalances, will not happen!
So we like to think.Then we do not want to try. Until something gets a hold of us we have to just move along with it fighting as we see were and who we met, what we are expected to do. Life provides these surprises. Just to make sure we are aware we are still in the world of the living.
With Andy Rooney’s ‘Enlightened Perspectives’ stated “That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.” Enough time has gone by that those immediately affected in the past had had to deal with life changes that have occurred. Decisions made while dealing with life’s unbalances.
Imploying a fine balance in life by using the 'Scales of life' a desired balance is able to be strived for. Take the topic of our own bodies. As each of grows up we are trusted to take up the responsibilities of looking after ‘our body’ and its environment ourselves. Our rights over ‘our body’ involve having enough information to be not ignorant of the negative effects towards the life choices each of us chose to make. For ‘our bodies’ further development and continued eminence. In truth our obligated commitment to keeping ‘our body’ in good working order has consequences.
Scales of balance are both inter and intra-woven. Not one can stand alone, but each is an individual in it’s own right.
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