When a major influence on our lives consumes us, taking over our thought patterns and colouring our world to an extent that we can only see things from one angle and therefore everyone else should think that way places an enormously major pressure to live up to those expectations. There is then no room for maneuvering, changing or bouncing back.
Naturally water is easy to change its shape, texture and even it’s make up. Even rivers change their flow after environmental cause and effects come into play. Man then may alter the chemical balance, and then land has chemical seepage. Where is the difference in a person’s life?
To have and to sustain growth of ourselves and therefore others surrounding us reflects our changeable factors. Those we can control and not control.Factors we ourselves influence, others influence for us or that impact changes upon us.
Micro or macro mind bending and warping causing confuse situational interpretations, rather than having possitive learning titilated, encouraged and endorsed through growth stimulating thought patterns. People learning look to those in the know for guidance, praise,safety and correctional thinking aspects of understanding what is happening. Often these mentors have a profound life time affect on the lives that they knowingly or unknowingly touch or influence.
World peace is a macro policy shift in thinking. Previously counties wanted peace…their way. With technology being used by the private person the macro thinking organisations are to be open with their visions, missions, objectives, aims goals and strategies. Macro thinking cannot afford people discovering their wayward thoughts and deeds.
How ever the micro thinker… yes the people in singular, or those in small groups, have a large influence sphere. Knowing they have the power and influence to use their talents, gifts and life experiances for the betterment of the world is terrific. People need peace within themselves as well as their surrounding environments as well.
The opposite of peace is confusion. Confusion can take a heavy emotional toll on anyone- child or adult. Confusion leads to fear. Fear develops close offs; shut downs, insular effects, ill health and isolation. Each having a feeding frenzy on the other, supporting the other in the negative views of the world, other people or of that person themselves.
Thus extreme narcissism and psychological poisoning occurs as well. Dripping into the life source ‘self’ of each person.
In small doses people create techniques to insulate themselves from the hurtful effects of these negative perceptions created. Whilst protecting themselves and shielding their loved ones the poisons seep further into our communities, environment, work places, educational institutions, social clubs and organisations, rest and relaxation time. The insular effects themselves form barriers of growth.
Communities suffer; society changes and the goals of Peace just evaporate. Strategies for rebounding and coping mechanisms now come into play.Environmental disasters have many organisations with the appropriate strategies brought in to deal with the initial emergencies. Some to deal with the actual disaster, the relief and rescue efforts (machines, skilled people, communications, transport), others deal with the survival side of things (medical, food relief.) and still later others are brought in for the community re development. All the people involved through out the world, on the actual seen or the victims relieve assistance. The people brought in have been trained, their thinking and survival skills moulded and shaped through their training and their environment.
But what about surviving people that we care about weird sorry attitudes? The reactions created to the subtle put downs that cause years of trouble and grief. Little statements that peoples minds latch onto with a vengeance. You’re too tall to do that, why aren’t you taller…, why aren’t you a …, you can’t do that, you’re a … What about 'your family members are a … therefore so to are you! ‘Soft and subtle psychological poisons' that often the speaker may be unaware of themselves. However the comments, body language, actions and repercussions saturate our psyches. Destroying of self confidence permanently moulds people’s view of themselves,their health and welbeing, their place in society, the work force, their abilities to integrate, communicate, provide for their family to name just a few.
Breaking a mould that has shape a community and the people within it should not be a shattering effect as natural disasters are. Who we are and what we do are part of a persons self perception, their role and place in life. Opening the person up to new possibilities is a “softly, softly catchy monkey” journey. Do this to fast and damage is done. Providing tantalising titbits, supported by good public relations and a non threatening positive attitude arouses curiosity factors. Curiosity wedges the cracks open with cent blocks blocking the cracks open. From this point people can come back to take another look. Eventually they will talk with others, reach out and smell the roses. They may even come out and steal a rose when no one is looking, take it back and place it in a safe place to look upon. What happens when the rose has wilted? They know where to go for another one, or two if a friend needs one to cheer them up too. Now there are two people at the rose bush in the garden. The friend may be all the support they need to explore and feel comfortable a t being seen there.
From this position of security the person may then see others that they know of. Becoming involved with little tasks and into activities. Later discussion groups and evaluations on how things as a group are going. Before long that crack in the wall is too small to slip through with a bunch of roses and other flowers so effectively the person needs to widen the crake, tear own the wall and open the windows and doors. Of cause they also need to recognise the need that not every room in their homes must be open living. Privacy is a must. Its part of our selves.
Small reachable goal setting in these cases are giants leaps of faith. Once aspect of community development is people development. In order to develop people need to reflect on what they really want to achieve. Braking these ‘dreams’ down into small stepping stones is a major miracle in itself at times.
People are like pack animals. In a pack there is security. Through the use of organisations many developmental things may be achieved. When a community perceives and organisation to be active they take note. Because the people within the organisation are active, not threatening, moving ahead and involving others other people want to become involved.
Having a clear guiding syllabus that each person involved can adapt to meet their requirements is just the spring board for decisions to be made. In the beginning for actions to occur motion needs to be ‘induced’.
Hic-ups along the way may also steam from jealousies encrypted into people’s subconscious minds. Using stepping stones while people achieve gives them something to hang onto. At times grip tightly onto as the current pulls them toe=wards an abuse until rescue efforts can hall them up and into safety and separation from the negative choices and pulls within peoples lives.
One of societies ill’s is the ‘me’ factor. The ‘selfish’ me factor destroys what they cannot have, or be involved in. People’s attitudes suit their actions perfectly. Attitudes and actions reflect not only the inner self but the organisations behaviour patterns of our selves, our family members, friend, peers and co-workers. This cycle is small, decreasing and greedily negative. Like any monster this cycle craves constant feeding through negative putdowns, quick fix substances, constant adrenaline rush stimulants. Think about it. It’s a brave person to not only move away from this point, but one that has taken the steps to become pro-active with their own life. Face the fears and move away from the situation into a greater loving energy source. People are then able to do something new now, even of they have associated memories to negative aspects as they new memories, skills, learning factors from an ever opening world of opportunities is there.
The imposition of negative attitudes on fledgling successes is a way of cutting down a tall poppy. As any gardener knows a weed is a plant that is not wanted in that spot of the garden. So the gardener plants and weeds regularly. Sometimes transplanting the plant to a mire suitable location where it can better do its stuff, grow, bloom and propagate. The rubbish bin to recycle for nutrients. Or the rubbish bin for the poisonous, noxious ones. They get incinerated later as no other gardener wants or needs them in their garden.
Replacing negative with positive views, getting into action mode, learning new methods, mixing amongst another group of people within communities, having communities join together and grow is a positive repletion pattern. The limits of life are impossible to know unless people get out their and experience them for themselves. Experience life with open eyes that incorporate multi faceted views rather than just believing someone else tunnel vision view of life. Go for It.!
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